Aggression – Dog Parenting 101 . Virtual Dog Training Anywhere in the World Fri, 05 Apr 2019 08:04:44 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.4 /wp-content/uploads/2018/03/favicon-dog-parenting.png Aggression – Dog Parenting 101 . 32 32 How to Walk a Leash Aggressive Dog /how-to-walk-a-leash-aggressive-dog /how-to-walk-a-leash-aggressive-dog#comments Wed, 04 Jul 2018 12:13:46 +0000 /?p=407 Read more]]> How to walk a leash aggressive dog

I have a leash aggressive dog, so this topic hits close to home. That’s not to say the same doesn’t hold true for everything I write about, but figuring out how to stop leash aggression so we can all enjoy our walks, definitely had its’ challenges.

Let’s back up a little bit, and look a bit closer at what’s going on with your own leash aggressive dog.

Ask yourself –   

  • Has your dog always been great on a leash, but as he’s getting older he’s becoming aggressive?
  • Have you recently adopted a dog with a past that is unknown, and you’ve noticed this aggression when out on a walk?

How to Walk a Leash Aggressive Dog

Consider these possible explanations

  • Your dog is experiencing vision and/or hearing loss or impairment, and he’s now feeling anxious or insecure when outside, particularly when approaching other dogs or people.
  • Canine cognitive disorder (doggie dementia) causes confusion, so he’s becoming aggressive from stress or anxiety at not recognising familiar places.
  • Pain can definitely cause a dog to act out, and if he has arthritis for example, walks can be painful.
  • Abuse in your pup’s past can absolutely account for leash aggression, and that’s the situation with my dog Jack. An abused dog can feel insecure, and when a perceived threat in the form of another dog or human is approaching, that discomfort can manifest itself by aggressive behaviour. That is compounded by the fact he is tethered and cannot escape the “threat.”
  • A dog that has not been trained to walk nicely on a leash or been socialised, has no idea what to do or what to expect. The fear he may feel can manifest itself as aggression.  

Does anything resonate so far?

Whenever you’re dealing with changes in behaviour, my usual recommendation applies. Get down to your wonderfully helpful vet for a health check, just to rule out any physical causes for this aggression.

The results are in…

If your vet has discovered a cause – perhaps your dog has some arthritis or just isn’t feeling well. Once a treatment plan is in place and your pup starts feeling better, the behaviour should change.

If the reason is due to something like vision or hearing loss, or another health condition that may be challenging to treat, the desensitisation training I will be discussing shortly may not be the best thing to do in that case.

How to stop on leash aggressionDon’t get me wrong. I adopt senior and special needs dogs, so I don’t believe vision issues, loss of hearing or dementia means they can’t have a great quality of life, with walks and interactions. I am saying that each dog is different, so it may be kinder, in some cases, to take a different approach.

For example, one of my neighbours had a German Shepherd named Sasha. She was mostly blind, deaf and was also dealing with arthritis. Being outside with people and other dogs around made her really nervous, and she would bark constantly.

In this case nothing could be gained by the training, or putting her in situations that scared her. The kindest thing was what her dad would do – walk her close to home when the streets were quiet. If he did see someone approaching he would turn around and carry on. Sasha did much better, and was able to enjoy her outings.

If you have had your dog since he was a puppy

For those who’ve had their dogs from the beginning and whose past is no secret, or your incredibly helpful training has given him a new lease on life, reasons for this aggression can include:

  • The walker (you, the dog walker or anyone else who takes him out) giving unintentional signals to be aggressive
  • Bad experiences with other dogs caused fear or dislike
  • Lack of socialisation, so he never learned to be “okay” around other dogs
  • Loves to play so much he gets frustrated being held back
  • He doesn’t go for walks nearly as often as he should, so when he finally does he’s pretty much a nightmare

How can a walker unintentionally create leash aggression?

It can be hard to believe that we’re actually creating the condition we’re desperately trying to correct. Here’s how that can happen –

One day a dog may be a bit “aggressive” on a walk, for any number of reasons. When this happens, the walker will Are you unintentionally creating a leash aggressive doginstinctively tighten up on the leash to hold the dog back. Makes sense right? This creates 2 problems – 1) the walker becomes on edge each time they’re out, transferring that tension to the dog and teaching him there is something to fear and 2) tightening up on the leash is what you do in attack training – meaning they’re unintentionally training the dog to attack.

Off leash dogs in a park tend to approach each other in an arc, not head on. They sniff, then decide whether to hang out or move on. That’s in real contrast to dogs out for a walk on a leash who approach each other head on, looking at each other, not being able to turn their bodies, all of which in doggie language is threatening. This is intensified when the walkers stop to chat, keeping the dogs in this state longer and longer. As the dogs strain against their leashes, guardians are tightening their grips to hold them back, adding to the problem by confirming for the dogs there is a reason to feel threatened. We’re tense, they’re tense and the cycle continues.

Helpful tips

Never punish your dog for this behaviour. Punishment is not training.

It’s important you teach your dog to pay attention to you, so when you’re home and it’s quiet call his name in a calm voice. When he looks at you, reward him. Try it in increasingly busy areas, as that’s the challenge.

Pay attention to your dog’s body language, noticing what changes occur when he starts to get aggressive. If you intervene at the hint of a first sign, you’ll have better luck preventing full out aggression, and getting him to respond to your commands.

If your dog goes full out aggressive he won’t listen to you, so forget it. Keep walking and remove him from the situation as quickly as possible.

Your own state is equally important. Don’t hold your breath or have rigid posture – be casual, be cool. If you find that difficult, put your headphones on and listen to calming music.

Always keep the leash loose, no tension, but keep a firm grip on the handle.

Play with him for a few minutes before your walk, perhaps a game of fetch in the backyard. A tired dog may be less reactive.

If you have a small dog that can easily be picked up, cover his face so he doesn’t see approaching dogs. Don’t do this as a matter of course, just if you don’t feel in control of the situation.

Cross the road, or turn around.

If a dog is approaching head on try and make a large arc around him. That may be enough to prevent an episode. If he did well and didn’t react, be sure to reward him right away.

Stick to the quieter areas, where encountering others is less likely.

Change your dog walking times to when you know there’s fewer chances of meeting too many dogs and/or people.

Is this really the solution?

These avoidance techniques are a solution in terms of decreasing the chances of your dog getting into a situation which will cause him to be leash aggressive. Of course this won’t help him learn to deal with it. You will also be denying a social creature the opportunity to interact with people and others of his kind, which really isn’t fair.

There is a time and place for avoidance

The training I mention below will help, but it takes practice to get the “timing” right. When we first adopted Jack, I was guilty of using avoidance on occasion when I didn’t feel confident or ready. There’s nothing wrong with that, as long as you do it only sometimes.

There is a difference between avoidance and choosing to minimise the chance of too many interactions at once, particularly if you live in a busy area and it’s constant bombardment for your dog. Finding a time where there are fewer people and dogs about can help with the training.

Create real change using desensitisation

The best way to help is by teaching him great things happen when he meets other dogs and people. It’s about creating positive associations – he sees something he’s been afraid of, and now he gets something delicious.

Use his favourite treats, but keep an eye on his weight, as this training can take some time!  

The desensitisation technique

Think about your own personal space. There is a distance at which you’re fine, but as a person gets closer and closer and invades that space you may start to feel uncomfortable, anxious, or just plain annoyed. The same can hold true for your dog.

He has a range within which he is fine with people and other dogs, but closer and you start to see or hear a change. Does he become more alert? Seem to stand taller? Stop? Can you hear a low growl starting?

desensitisation training for a leash aggressive dogFor practice, recruit someone you know with a very calm dog. Face each other with your dogs from quite a distance both in front and to your side, then slowly walk towards each other. When you’ve gotten closer to each other, but your dog is still in his “safe” zone, ask him to sit, look at you, and start giving him treats one after the other. You want him focused on you the entire time. Once your friend and dog have passed, stop the treats and keep walking.

That’s it!! You’ll keep doing this until your dog is comfortable at closer and closer distances, and you’ll do the same thing when you’re out on your walks.

I don’t have a friend to help

Don’t worry, I didn’t either!!

Walk your dog in as quiet an area as you can, or a quiet time of day. Having one or two dogs and/or people pass is easier to manage than being bombarded all at once.

As a change of pace you can, at times, sit on a bench in a quiet area with your dog and when someone approaches start feeding him the treats until they’ve passed.  

You’ll want to invest in a treat pouch for quick and easy access!!

You can’t control every scenario

It would be nice if we could control what happens on our walks wouldn’t it? Set up a perfect training environment every time we step out of the house! Believe me, I wished the very same thing!

We’d like –

  • Enough warning when a dog approaches
  • No influx of dogs and humans when the park is “supposed” to be empty
  • Every time you give your dog a treat he will ignore a passing dog, and calmly sit until he passes
  • When you kindly ask a person to ignore your dog and not approach him because he’s nervous…they actually respect what you’re saying and listen!!

You will not be perfect

This is all new to you and there’s a learning curve for everyone, so please do not be hard on yourself. You’re going to do great!!

  • You may not always get the timing of the treats right
  • You may panic because your dog starts going nuts before you have a chance to get the treats out
  • There will be times your dog will be so riled up he’ll ignore the treats
  • You’ll freeze and forget what you’re supposed to do
  • If you’re feeling unsure, or someone comes up suddenly, stay calm, change directions and keep going. It takes practice to get the timing right, so don’t panic.

What happens if it’s not working?

The thing is, it’s impossible to put a deadline on how long it will take. Every dog has a different story, and each learns at their own pace. In my case it took a good few weeks to see progress.  

If you’re having trouble with the technique, or you’re not seeing any improvement, a trainer will help.

Does this mean he’ll be perfectly behaved on our walks now?

It is possible your dog will always have some leash issues, but don’t be discouraged. Jack is 1000 times better than he was, but I’m still always alert on our walks. There are cues I use to help calm him, and with time and practice you’ll find the words that work best for your dog.

For me a big problem is always people who insist on trying to bend down and pet him, because he’s so darn cute!! I ask them nicely to ignore him as he’s nervous due to being mistreated. Most respect my word, but you’ll always have some that don’t, so just keep on walking.

Products that could help

While they won’t help with your part in the training, what these items are designed to do is give a “heads up” to others so they know what your dog is like.

Harnesses, collars, leashes and vests with messages are a great way to let people know what’s going on with your dog. They say things like – Friendly/Deaf Dog/Nervous

A few months ago I saw a woman whose dog was wearing a vest that said “give me space.” Yesterday I met a woman with 2 dogs – one had a harness that said “friendly” the other a collar that said “deaf dog.”

They are definitely not the only answer, but as far as I’m concerned, anything we can do to help is worth doing.

How to walk a leash aggressive dog – conclusion

I imagine you’re feeling worried or even overwhelmed by what you’ve just read, and I know how you feel. When I first started this I was so nervous, and believe me it took a while until I gained my confidence and figured out the best way to help Jack. Take as long as you need to re-read this until it makes sense, but don’t put off making a start because you’re nervous. I’ve been there too!

Desensitisation does work, and even if your dog still has his “moments” you will find them so much easier to manage.

You’ve got this!!

 

 

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How Do I Stop My Dog Attacking Other Dogs on a Walk /how-do-i-stop-my-dog-attacking-other-dogs-on-a-walk /how-do-i-stop-my-dog-attacking-other-dogs-on-a-walk#respond Sat, 16 Jun 2018 09:10:35 +0000 /?p=273 Read more]]> how do I stop my dog attacking other dogs on a walk

Dear Hindy,

My dog Tracey tries to attack every dog she passes on our walks. I now have to put a muzzle on her and I feel terrible, not to mention how upset I am about the looks of disgust I get from passers-by. I feel like a bad owner. Please help. Thanks, Candace.

How do I Stop My Dog Attacking Other Dogs on a Walk

Dear Candace,

I know exactly how you feel, believe me. When we first adopted Jack he would go ballistic every time he saw a dog, no matter how far away he was. He only weighs about 10lbs yet he would turn ferocious, and seem to develop the strength of a 90lb dog!! Walking him was definitely a nightmare. He was mistreated in his previous life, so the insecurity was understandable. Luckily a technique called “desensitisation” has made a world of difference. Here’s what to do.

Buy yourself a treat pouch, keep it on you every time you take Tracey for a walk, and fill it with her favorite treats. BTW, only use these for training, don’t give them to her any other time.

When you see a dog coming, move out of the direct path if possible. Have her look at you, (try and block her view a bit with your body) and start feeding her treats one after the other to distract her until the “threat” has gone.

If she sees the dog and starts to react, forget the treats and ride it out. You’ll try again next time. Don’t get discouraged, it took me some practice to get the timing and technique down, but you will. Walks are a lot more pleasant now for us, and they should be for you as well.

Good luck!

 

 

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Why Does My Dog Bite Me /why-does-my-dog-bite-me /why-does-my-dog-bite-me#respond Fri, 15 Jun 2018 12:21:59 +0000 /?p=266 Read more]]> why does my dog bite me

Dear Hindy,

When I try and take Earl’s toy away from him he always tries to bite me, and sometimes he gets me. What gives! Thanks, Roy

Why Does My Dog Bite Me

Dear Roy,

Ouch!! Earl is displaying something known as “resource guarding” which, put simply means he is controlling access by anyone else to, in this case, his toy. It’s quite common and although an exact cause may not be known, it is often a result of a dog feeling insecure. They tend to see everyone as a potential threat to whatever resource they are protecting.

Obviously it’s not a very desirable behavior because Earl could hurt someone seriously one day, not to mention how stressful it is for him to be on high alert all the time.

You must never, ever punish a dog for a behavior you are not happy with. It doesn’t work and it’s cruel. Having said that, the good news is there are ways to help him gain more confidence, and in turn allow you to take toys, or anything else for that matter, away from him when you choose.

First you need to find something Earl likes more than the toy, and it’s usually something delicious. The next time he’s guarding his toy approach him but stop well before the distance at which you would typically get a reaction, and throw him a bit of the treat. Then another and leave the room. Don’t give him any if he comes looking, you want it to be only when he’s with his toy.

You’ll keep repeating this, taking a step closer when you’re sure he’s comfortable at the previous distance. Once you’re close to him with no reaction, lean over slightly as though you’re going to take the toy and drop a treat. Keep repeating this and reaching closer as long as he’s not reacting.

If at any point he does, you’ve progressed too quickly.

Eventually you will be able to pick up the toy. How long is impossible to say, just keep up the training nice and slow.

Good luck!

 

**Ready to schedule a virtual training session with me? Great let’s get started!! Simply fill in the contact form with your time zone and what you need help with, and I’ll be in touch to set up an appointment.**  

 

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